When Your Tank Is Empty: Understanding and Healing from ADHD Burnout
You’re staring at a simple task, but your brain feels like it’s full of static; your battery hasn't just hit zero, it feels like the charger itself...
Finding Your Way When You Are the Expat Trailing Spouse
What if the most exhausting part of your move to Singapore wasn't the humidity or the endless paperwork, but the quiet disappearance of who you used...
When Emotions Feel Like a Storm: Navigating ADHD Emotional Dysregulation
What if the "explosive" emotions you've been shaming yourself for are actually a neurological response rather than a personality trait? I know how it...
Finding Your Way Through the Invisible Ache of Pregnancy Loss Grief
Last Tuesday, Sarah sat in my office in Singapore and described the quiet ache of returning to her high-pressure job just days after her world...
Finding a Safe Space: My Journey as an International Therapist in Singapore
You land at Changi with a suitcase full of hope, but six months later, you're sitting in a clinical office feeling more "othered" than ever. It's...
When you can’t stop feeling like a bad mother
What if the heavy weight of guilt you're carrying isn't proof that you're failing, but evidence of how much you deeply care? I know that quiet,...
When the Weight of Motherhood Feels Too Heavy to Carry
Last Tuesday, a client sat in my consulting room and described the exact moment she realised she was an overwhelmed mother; she was hiding in the...
When you find yourself grieving for your younger self
Last Tuesday, a client sat in my practice here in Singapore and described the sudden, sharp pang she felt while scrolling through photos from 2014....
When you start feeling invisible in midlife: A gentle path back to yourself
Last Tuesday, a woman I spoke with described the "crushing" weight of standing in her own kitchen while her family talked right over her as if she...
Why the fear of ageing feels so heavy for us
You might be standing in a busy queue at a café in Tanjong Pagar when it hits you. A group of women in their early twenties walks in, and you...