When Your Mind Feels Like Cotton Wool: Navigating Perimenopause Brain Fog
You are standing in the middle of the kitchen, staring into the fridge, and for the life of you, you cannot remember what you were looking for....
Navigating Career Change in Midlife: A Path to Your Authentic Self
I know that heavy feeling of waking up and realising your professional ladder is leaning against the wrong wall. Whether you're masking ADHD or...
Finding Your Way Back to Yourself After Fifty
What if the feeling of being invisible isn't a sign that your life is fading, but a quiet invitation to finally look inward? For many of us, reaching...
Reconnecting with Yourself: Embodiment and Identity Development in Women
Have you ever felt like you are just a "floating head," moving through your days while your body simply carries you from one task to the next? It's...
Healing the Relationship with Your Body During Menopause
Did you know that 61% of women are currently dissatisfied with their bodies as they move through midlife? I know how it feels to catch a glimpse of...
Why Your Friendships Feel Different as You Reach Midlife
Last Friday, Sarah sat in her car in a Toa Payoh car park, staring at a WhatsApp group notification she simply didn't have the emotional energy to...
Who am I after 40? Re-meeting yourself in the midlife shift
Last Monday, a woman I'll call Mei sat in my office and whispered the question she'd been too afraid to say out loud: "Who am I after 40?" She'd...
When you feel lost in midlife and don’t know who you are anymore
Imagine sitting in your kitchen in Singapore at midnight, the rest of the house finally quiet, yet you feel a heavy, inexplicable ache that has...
When you start feeling invisible in midlife: A gentle path back to yourself
Last Tuesday, a woman I spoke with described the "crushing" weight of standing in her own kitchen while her family talked right over her as if she...
Why the fear of ageing feels so heavy for us
You might be standing in a busy queue at a café in Tanjong Pagar when it hits you. A group of women in their early twenties walks in, and you...