Relationship Trauma & Narcissistic Abuse Therapy
Psychotherapy for women affected by emotionally abusive relationships, narcissistic dynamics and divorce
Relationship trauma can quietly erode your sense of self. Many women who come to therapy describe feeling confused, emotionally exhausted, or no longer trusting their own judgement, often after years in relationships where their needs, boundaries or reality were minimised or dismissed.
I offer psychotherapy for women affected by relationship trauma, including narcissistic abuse, emotionally abusive partnerships and the psychological impact of divorce or separation. My work is grounded, trauma-informed and focused on helping you understand what has happened and how it continues to affect you now.
When relationships leave lasting emotional impact
Relationship trauma does not always involve obvious conflict or violence. It can develop slowly, through patterns such as:
- gaslighting or repeated invalidation of your feelings
- emotional manipulation, control or criticism
- walking on eggshells or feeling responsible for another person’s emotions
- chronic self-doubt, guilt or confusion
- loss of confidence, identity or emotional stability
For many women, these experiences are later recognised as narcissistic abuse, whether from a partner, former partner, or within long-term relational dynamics. Therapy offers a professional space to name these experiences safely, without minimising or self-blame.
Narcissistic abuse and its psychological effects
Narcissistic abuse can be difficult to recognise while you are in it. Women often arrive in therapy questioning themselves rather than the relationship, wondering why they feel anxious, depleted or “not like themselves anymore.”
The psychological impact may include:
- hypervigilance, anxiety or emotional shutdown
- difficulty trusting your perceptions or decisions
- trauma bonding and ambivalence about leaving
- grief for the relationship you hoped for
- shame, self-criticism or fear of repeating patterns
Psychotherapy can help you make sense of these responses as understandable adaptations to prolonged emotional stress, rather than personal failures.
Divorce, separation and recovery after relational trauma
Divorce or separation, particularly following emotionally abusive or narcissistic relationships, is not simply a practical or legal transition. It often involves profound emotional loss, identity disruption and nervous system stress.
Women may experience:
- grief mixed with relief, guilt or fear
- ongoing emotional entanglement with an ex-partner
- difficulty setting boundaries during or after separation
- anxiety about parenting, finances or starting again
- a loss of identity after years of adapting to another person
Therapy provides space to process the emotional aftermath of divorce, understand relational patterns, and begin rebuilding a more stable sense of self.
How psychotherapy can help
In therapy, we work gently and collaboratively to explore how relationship trauma has shaped your emotional responses, self-beliefs and nervous system over time. This may include:
- understanding trauma bonds, attachment patterns and relational conditioning
- rebuilding trust in your own perceptions and instincts
- working with anxiety, emotional overwhelm and self-doubt
- strengthening boundaries and emotional autonomy
- integrating past experiences so they no longer dominate the present
My approach is integrative and trauma-informed, drawing on psychodynamic psychotherapy, CBT and body-aware practices to support emotional regulation and long-term change.
A professional, supportive space
You do not need to have all the answers before starting therapy, nor be certain that what you experienced “counts” as abuse. Many women come to therapy simply knowing that something felt wrong — and that they no longer want to live in a state of confusion, self-blame or emotional vigilance.
Psychotherapy offers a confidential, professional space to explore this safely, at your own pace.
Next steps
If you are considering therapy for relationship trauma, narcissistic abuse or the emotional impact of divorce, I offer a free initial connection call. This provides an opportunity to talk briefly about what you’re experiencing and to see whether working together feels like the right fit.